when u r thinking of yr vision,could u ever seperate it from wealth?
some will say they dont know what is their vision,thats kind of poor life,they dont even hv one.thats really pity...
some will say i wanna live in a medium house,medium car with my love one rather than be a rich guy.
some will say: "i wanna be rich,i m inspired to spend my life in luxury way,i wanna be the one affordable for anything i want."
but how far is consider good life?
actly everything is connected,good life come with health and wealth.
outside yr protected hunt,everything is realistic as materialistic.
yeah,i heard many they would like to drive local proton car is enough to live,the reason is they dont need more,they r not happy to get more,its aprreciation.
in fact,i do not think only that way,actly life is not only for fighting for either BMW or proton.
but the mean of yr lifestyle,let say there is an emergency,and u need a big sum,so will u sell over yr proton or yr house to settle the problem since yr pay for even few years wont be able to reach that number.
but no,life isnt a just fight for choosing a proton or BMW,u actly need to pay for everything better for reason.
with no doubt,u need to hv the money for everything,mayb u wanna buy a ring to propose,u need to cover yr family by insurance,or u need to travel then all u need is money.
what i wanna express here is money is powerful,its powerful enough to bring freedom or take away the freedom.
lets come to real life,spending almost 8 hours a day working is the trend of living now.
for getting promotion,increasement of salary,perhaps hv to work harder.
but sometimes,even how hard u work,u only managed to earn the number for the house & car loans,insurance,and some living spending,meanwhile,u gave away yr time,yr freedom.
but there is little portion of people didnt work that way to live,they didnt exchange their freedom.
they buy people freedom to work for them and they own their time to spend.
this is gonna be my life.
my vision is set myself free from working hard,and do what i enjoy with..
Monday, December 14, 2009
怎样的人才算聪明，怎样才是笨？
占上风，占优势的人算是聪明，而处处忍让他人，不多计较的人便是笨？
到今天我还不懂...
不懂得占便宜，不用大声唬人就被笑笨，这什么想法啊？
唉，今天我深深感受到自己实在是“不会做人”!
笑我笨，笑我天真，也许吧!
做人其实不容易，要真心更不容易，不一定有人领情了。
自问身边人有多几个是真心良伴，有多几个是手足？
假情假意的到时多，对啦，伪装是种自我保护。
得好好向人学习做人啦。
占上风，占优势的人算是聪明，而处处忍让他人，不多计较的人便是笨？
到今天我还不懂...
不懂得占便宜，不用大声唬人就被笑笨，这什么想法啊？
唉，今天我深深感受到自己实在是“不会做人”!
笑我笨，笑我天真，也许吧!
做人其实不容易，要真心更不容易，不一定有人领情了。
自问身边人有多几个是真心良伴，有多几个是手足？
假情假意的到时多，对啦，伪装是种自我保护。
得好好向人学习做人啦。
the day is grey today.
its like alone,i wondered if human need anything to live?
everything seems fake,i dont know what i got to do.
felt so conflicted.
i tasted the stress,i felt the cold,i was desolated.
i'm injured.
lost in my way.
its like alone,i wondered if human need anything to live?
everything seems fake,i dont know what i got to do.
felt so conflicted.
i tasted the stress,i felt the cold,i was desolated.
i'm injured.
lost in my way.
Saturday, November 28, 2009
if u tell 10 people if got a problem,7 will dont care and 3 are glad u hv the problem.
it is very true,that v r the one who care about our own.
hardly find one care u from a group of people called friend,merely friend.
people are thinking more about wat they will hv their lunch than they think about u.
true right?
i know some friend are playing a role like a trader in bussiness.
they r dealing with u like a bussiness deal.
when u no longer offering a good deal,opss...sorry,they turn out.
tats wat in my mind lately,mayb i was too late to realise tis.
it is very true,that v r the one who care about our own.
hardly find one care u from a group of people called friend,merely friend.
people are thinking more about wat they will hv their lunch than they think about u.
true right?
i know some friend are playing a role like a trader in bussiness.
they r dealing with u like a bussiness deal.
when u no longer offering a good deal,opss...sorry,they turn out.
tats wat in my mind lately,mayb i was too late to realise tis.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
看见阿ma躺在病床上，含糊地说话，不时喘着，连呼吸都叹气，我真的呆了。
她老人家很费心的养大了孩子，刻苦耐劳地把孩子带大成家了，自己就老去了，也没什么机会享福啊。
她老人家没受过何等教育，不认识字，却把家管得很好，在我爸还小时是路边摊卖面卖冰水的。
我曾问她为何脚上的几根趾甲是畸形的，其实是因为当时工作被大冰条摔伤，好不起来。
现在老了，几次自己剪脚趾甲还不察觉到流血，被工人看到了才发现。
阿ma从小看着我们长大，从婴儿般的幼小到长大成人，一点都不简单。
现在孙子大了，不但不孝顺，反而还要她老人家操心，就连睡在病床上了还念着不放心我家人。
顿时，无言多说，静静地看着她，发现她又老了许多，现在连背热要自行转身都无能为力。
看久了，眼红了，抬不起头。
她老人家的教训我不敢不听，说的不是什么大道理，不过却是她亲身经历的经验。
生老病死是无法避免的，我也希望阿公阿ma可以安心地度过晚年。
她老人家很费心的养大了孩子，刻苦耐劳地把孩子带大成家了，自己就老去了，也没什么机会享福啊。
她老人家没受过何等教育，不认识字，却把家管得很好，在我爸还小时是路边摊卖面卖冰水的。
我曾问她为何脚上的几根趾甲是畸形的，其实是因为当时工作被大冰条摔伤，好不起来。
现在老了，几次自己剪脚趾甲还不察觉到流血，被工人看到了才发现。
阿ma从小看着我们长大，从婴儿般的幼小到长大成人，一点都不简单。
现在孙子大了，不但不孝顺，反而还要她老人家操心，就连睡在病床上了还念着不放心我家人。
顿时，无言多说，静静地看着她，发现她又老了许多，现在连背热要自行转身都无能为力。
看久了，眼红了，抬不起头。
她老人家的教训我不敢不听，说的不是什么大道理，不过却是她亲身经历的经验。
生老病死是无法避免的，我也希望阿公阿ma可以安心地度过晚年。
seeing everybody heading back to their hometown, but not me.
not bcs of its distance, not bcs of i had forgotten address, not bcs of i hv no hometown.
i hv hometown,it is Sungai Petani,Kedah.
i lived there for arnd 20 years till now.
actly,there is no place i had ever familiar with and will never get lost except there.
i was not born in there but used to grew up there.
there,place me to go school,i meet friend,but now what?
i hv no reason to return there.
yes,of course there is reason for me not to return.
so i didnt manage to catch up any party,gathering or a good time with my parent.
what to do?
i dont really blaming what is happening.
just let it b.
not bcs of its distance, not bcs of i had forgotten address, not bcs of i hv no hometown.
i hv hometown,it is Sungai Petani,Kedah.
i lived there for arnd 20 years till now.
actly,there is no place i had ever familiar with and will never get lost except there.
i was not born in there but used to grew up there.
there,place me to go school,i meet friend,but now what?
i hv no reason to return there.
yes,of course there is reason for me not to return.
so i didnt manage to catch up any party,gathering or a good time with my parent.
what to do?
i dont really blaming what is happening.
just let it b.
Monday, November 23, 2009
believe it or not,facebook & msn have became there place to complain about.
many words are pointing others' mistakes, stabbing one's back,but grumbling tat kind of feeling dont help.
yeah,they meant they are sad, and they only to say: "i m a freak,argh..."and thats all.
dont u think tat its funny if the people only know to point out here and there is the problem,but never take into consideration on what the hell for doing so.
looking for solution is better than crawling that much!
come on,u hv grew up,and know how to complain only.
should lead yr own way.
telling people how pity how crazy is not an idea,u need to find out.
yr own happiness is on yr hand.
alright,it seems that everyone is in trouble?
no!there is no trouble when u dont think it is.
normally, people seldom be grateful, they rather look up vulnerability.
pls lah!wake up and look around,there is no big deal,just take the pleasure.
grumbling is such disgusting.
be thanksgiving,be grateful.
人总是在最后才知道原来谁最好，其实最好的就在于你有没有去把握。
many words are pointing others' mistakes, stabbing one's back,but grumbling tat kind of feeling dont help.
yeah,they meant they are sad, and they only to say: "i m a freak,argh..."and thats all.
dont u think tat its funny if the people only know to point out here and there is the problem,but never take into consideration on what the hell for doing so.
looking for solution is better than crawling that much!
come on,u hv grew up,and know how to complain only.
should lead yr own way.
telling people how pity how crazy is not an idea,u need to find out.
yr own happiness is on yr hand.
alright,it seems that everyone is in trouble?
no!there is no trouble when u dont think it is.
normally, people seldom be grateful, they rather look up vulnerability.
pls lah!wake up and look around,there is no big deal,just take the pleasure.
grumbling is such disgusting.
be thanksgiving,be grateful.
人总是在最后才知道原来谁最好，其实最好的就在于你有没有去把握。
