不愛了，就別去煩他。 Posted by life-like-this on 6:43 AM

当他不爱你的时候,无论过去他是否爱过后来却忘了,或者

是否从未爱过。当你无法成为他心里的那个人的时候,他的心便不会记得你。虽然他知道你深爱他,但他宁可选择装作是不知道。

当他不爱你的时候,请不要在你不开心,或者是遇到麻烦而彷徨的时候去打搅他。他那儿绝对不是你此刻应该的去处。也许他会在接到你的电话的时候,淡淡地安慰你几句,却也仅此而已。也许你会再想要什么,于是说:"我们见面吧."而他肯定心有烦躁了.当他不爱你的时候,你的爱,你的人,就会显得廉价许多..你占了下风,这是人的本性。他会说:"好,不过我现在有点儿事情。晚一点的时候你再给我电话吧。或者我给你电话也可以。"而你这时千万不要当真,他只是找了个不是很高明的理由来搪塞你。请,不要真的去等,不要骗自己。

当他不爱你的时候,请不要与他讲你的琐事,也许此刻,你不过是希望让彼此更熟悉一些。只是,他却无暇更是没有兴趣去了解你,你的生活,你的过去,你的长处短处与他又何干?即使讲了他也很快会忘记的,就如他忘记你的生日,你的地址,你的电话一样.没有爱,于是你注定挤不进他的生命.即使,你要的哪怕只是一很小很小的角落..

当他不爱你的时候,请不要在他的面前流眼泪,不要在生病的时候告诉他。他无法给予你照顾和关心,至多是同情一下而已,请骄傲的你,不要放弃本来属于你的骄傲。虽然太多的人,在爱的面前丢失了太多。连站起来的勇气都没有,何来骄傲?只是,要记得,只有爱自己的人,才可以真正地去疼惜你。而不是,旁观的同情、怜悯。

当他不爱你的时候,你的爱便是他的负担。请不要去计算自己的付出,不要希望有什么回报。爱着不爱自己的人,本身便是没有回报的。不要计较对与错,这样会快乐些。要记住,你与他之间的爱,是单方面的,你用心,他无心。所以,也不要怪他。因为也许他也想做好一些。对你不要那样的冷漠。其实,爱一个人,对一个人好。本来就是一种本能。对不起,他没有这样的本能。

当他不爱你的时候,请不要失去自己的自信。因为爱一个人,并非他的优秀,而只是一种感觉。他让你有这样的感觉,于是你爱他。同样,他不爱你,也并非你不优秀。优秀,不是爱的理由。看看还有那么多爱自己的人,淡淡地微笑一下,也是异样甜美的。

当他不爱你的时候,也一定要祝福他。有了爱,便不该有恨。爱是美好的,恨却丑陋。何必让生命中最美好的东西化作丑恶呢?也不要觉得不公平。关于离去,他失去的是一个爱他的人,而你失去了一个不爱你的人,却得到了一个重新生活,重新去爱的机会。请不要去想到"永远",爱没有永远。你此刻深爱,却注定遥远的某一天也不再爱他。他只是比你早一步到达了这一天。当他不爱你的时候,请轻轻拥抱一下回忆里的温暖,轻柔地凝视凋谢的温柔。

当他不再爱你的时候,请你深深呼吸,一生的路上,铺满了爱的花蕾,总有那么一朵属于你,不是安慰你..

14/1/2010 Posted by life-like-this on 5:34 AM

seriously,i felt like i act abnormally,i think in different way compare to my peers.
and this is how lead me to wonder,what kind of personality i m...
its a sad outcome that i cant response to myself whether who i m.
i dont know how to express myself anymore.
u know,i faced something that cause me MAD,but i cant be MAD.
i know i hv to be calm,so i dint shout and its happening internally...
its a good way to handle thing?
i really dont know...
sometimes,straight forward is kind of relieving...but i just cant make it..
this is my bad,i m ground on the floor now,kind of down.
losing way to express.

1/9/2010 Posted by life-like-this on 9:21 PM

i dont know what is going on with the situation where A & B were not sastisfied with each other.
their situation was mess up.
A complaining B,but B was complaining A at the same time.
the problem is they r sharing one room.
then they came to me,keep on telling each other mistakes,grumble again started.
i really wish i could bear their problem,just let them throw into me,how nice if i could possibly do this.
actly no big deal,but they...they r crazy.
they dont listen to me,what they do will be making the problem bigger.
i dont know what to do,who should i listen?
yeah,there is no conversation between them.
they r making me down...
to tell them stay calm to talk?i did number of times ard.
it has no end in this way.
i wanna shout!!!i wanna run!!i wanna be okay!!

the vision Posted by life-like-this on 11:33 PM

when u r thinking of yr vision,could u ever seperate it from wealth?
some will say they dont know what is their vision,thats kind of poor life,they dont even hv one.thats really pity...
some will say i wanna live in a medium house,medium car with my love one rather than be a rich guy.
some will say: "i wanna be rich,i m inspired to spend my life in luxury way,i wanna be the one affordable for anything i want."
but how far is consider good life?
actly everything is connected,good life come with health and wealth.
outside yr protected hunt,everything is realistic as materialistic.
yeah,i heard many they would like to drive local proton car is enough to live,the reason is they dont need more,they r not happy to get more,its aprreciation.
in fact,i do not think only that way,actly life is not only for fighting for either BMW or proton.
but the mean of yr lifestyle,let say there is an emergency,and u need a big sum,so will u sell over yr proton or yr house to settle the problem since yr pay for even few years wont be able to reach that number.
but no,life isnt a just fight for choosing a proton or BMW,u actly need to pay for everything better for reason.
with no doubt,u need to hv the money for everything,mayb u wanna buy a ring to propose,u need to cover yr family by insurance,or u need to travel then all u need is money.
what i wanna express here is money is powerful,its powerful enough to bring freedom or take away the freedom.
lets come to real life,spending almost 8 hours a day working is the trend of living now.
for getting promotion,increasement of salary,perhaps hv to work harder.
but sometimes,even how hard u work,u only managed to earn the number for the house & car loans,insurance,and some living spending,meanwhile,u gave away yr time,yr freedom.
but there is little portion of people didnt work that way to live,they didnt exchange their freedom.
they buy people freedom to work for them and they own their time to spend.
this is gonna be my life.
my vision is set myself free from working hard,and do what i enjoy with..

笑我笨 Posted by life-like-this on 6:08 AM

怎样的人才算聪明，怎样才是笨？
占上风，占优势的人算是聪明，而处处忍让他人，不多计较的人便是笨？
到今天我还不懂...
不懂得占便宜，不用大声唬人就被笑笨，这什么想法啊？
唉，今天我深深感受到自己实在是“不会做人”!
笑我笨，笑我天真，也许吧!
做人其实不容易，要真心更不容易，不一定有人领情了。
自问身边人有多几个是真心良伴，有多几个是手足？
假情假意的到时多，对啦，伪装是种自我保护。
得好好向人学习做人啦。

grey Posted by life-like-this on 4:14 AM

the day is grey today.
its like alone,i wondered if human need anything to live?
everything seems fake,i dont know what i got to do.
felt so conflicted.
i tasted the stress,i felt the cold,i was desolated.
i'm injured.
lost in my way.

28/11 Posted by life-like-this on 6:58 AM

if u tell 10 people if got a problem,7 will dont care and 3 are glad u hv the problem.
it is very true,that v r the one who care about our own.
hardly find one care u from a group of people called friend,merely friend.
people are thinking more about wat they will hv their lunch than they think about u.
true right?
i know some friend are playing a role like a trader in bussiness.
they r dealing with u like a bussiness deal.
when u no longer offering a good deal,opss...sorry,they turn out.
tats wat in my mind lately,mayb i was too late to realise tis.