i guess i m the one who dont know how to say "hi" or even "i'm sorry" if i m wrong.
my temper was so bad recently, and i dont think i like it.
i need to do something to take control of it anyhow.
i felt sorry.
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
看了个短片，里头的主角，四肢全无，但他能积极地生活，游泳，打高尔夫，摔倒了这就站得起来，很成功还到处去给讲座，激励了世界上许多正常人。
有些人没了双手没了双脚，还可以过得很乐观，开朗地认真生活。
但有些人只不过为了点小事，就喊着要死了，在他脑里，这样活着应该是很痛苦吧！
其实，举这两例子比较，很明显的，大家都知道这两个人面对生活的看法不同，也导致了他们生活的差距。
其实，差距不是在于人或状况，是在于想法，对待事物的观念。
如果老是跟人做比较，说啊，谁有样貌，谁谁有钱啊，谁更有才华样貌啊，是多余的。
比较多了，人就会开始埋怨，嫌自己拥有的不好，同时就错过了人生的很多很多人与事物。
换来的却是不开心，累又挣扎的日子，也许大半背子就白白浪费了。
我可不想这样，所以我要学习乐观面对生活。
其实生气这样东西很厉害，说真的，谁会喜欢生气？
但遍遍就是为了大小事就生气了起来，没人喜欢，但就不是还会生气？
若能在要生气时，卸下这口气，调整一下看待事情的方式，相信事情的结果会更好吧！
学会不生气，学会放下是一种成长！
为什么没手脚的人可以很快乐，完美无缺的人却不能？
反而，那个正常人应该更幸福吧，其实大家都一样是可以选择快乐地过，只要不比较，放下不该执着的，就好了。
有些人没了双手没了双脚，还可以过得很乐观，开朗地认真生活。
但有些人只不过为了点小事，就喊着要死了，在他脑里，这样活着应该是很痛苦吧！
其实，举这两例子比较，很明显的，大家都知道这两个人面对生活的看法不同，也导致了他们生活的差距。
其实，差距不是在于人或状况，是在于想法，对待事物的观念。
如果老是跟人做比较，说啊，谁有样貌，谁谁有钱啊，谁更有才华样貌啊，是多余的。
比较多了，人就会开始埋怨，嫌自己拥有的不好，同时就错过了人生的很多很多人与事物。
换来的却是不开心，累又挣扎的日子，也许大半背子就白白浪费了。
我可不想这样，所以我要学习乐观面对生活。
其实生气这样东西很厉害，说真的，谁会喜欢生气？
但遍遍就是为了大小事就生气了起来，没人喜欢，但就不是还会生气？
若能在要生气时，卸下这口气，调整一下看待事情的方式，相信事情的结果会更好吧！
学会不生气，学会放下是一种成长！
为什么没手脚的人可以很快乐，完美无缺的人却不能？
反而，那个正常人应该更幸福吧，其实大家都一样是可以选择快乐地过，只要不比较，放下不该执着的，就好了。
Saturday, March 6, 2010
look back to last year,last month even yesterday,still i could identify the changes of me.
i had learned that being a good guy was not easy at all.
i m not saying that i m excellent one,but im always willing lend out my helping hands whenever there is a call for it.
not to wait for the return favour, never purposely do so.
but wat is pathetic is that, people dont appreciate it.
this is the root cause where i hv to learn give up and take an ease off for yrself.
i will not care if they dont even concern for my sake.
but it doesnt mean that i turn to be like someone that acted to me, i still the same and never expect me to polish the apple.
many are doing selffishness, though, why should i turn to be like them?
to simply sum up,if i dont like the way other treated me,i wont treat to anyone like that too.
i just dont care.
i had learned that being a good guy was not easy at all.
i m not saying that i m excellent one,but im always willing lend out my helping hands whenever there is a call for it.
not to wait for the return favour, never purposely do so.
but wat is pathetic is that, people dont appreciate it.
this is the root cause where i hv to learn give up and take an ease off for yrself.
i will not care if they dont even concern for my sake.
but it doesnt mean that i turn to be like someone that acted to me, i still the same and never expect me to polish the apple.
many are doing selffishness, though, why should i turn to be like them?
to simply sum up,if i dont like the way other treated me,i wont treat to anyone like that too.
i just dont care.
Monday, February 8, 2010
although the days were down,but dont fret.
i knew it will be better in future,i told myself.
it isn't hopeless,there will never be hopeless!
for most things that run down,dont daunt to it.
take it on to fight back,as long as i m gaining something as least,experience.
keeep yr chin up.
fight till the last breath.
i knew it will be better in future,i told myself.
it isn't hopeless,there will never be hopeless!
for most things that run down,dont daunt to it.
take it on to fight back,as long as i m gaining something as least,experience.
keeep yr chin up.
fight till the last breath.
Sunday, February 7, 2010
remembered the word BROTHER.
i just remember how it came but dont know how to forget...
its sad that a brotherhood could somehow change.
everyone does silly mistake,dont u?
i dont feel the need to enlarge people mistake and say something rude.
its like cut on yr bro,cut on the brotherhood.
look at it deeply,i found that it is not real,but fake.
which means i look at u wrongly,u care for the negligible things with your brother.
its sad but i hv to thanks u,cos u taught me strong.
now i knew u more than a brother could know.
kindly speaking,if u tend to treat your brother tis way,u r losing the meaning of brother.
life goes on.
i just remember how it came but dont know how to forget...
its sad that a brotherhood could somehow change.
everyone does silly mistake,dont u?
i dont feel the need to enlarge people mistake and say something rude.
its like cut on yr bro,cut on the brotherhood.
look at it deeply,i found that it is not real,but fake.
which means i look at u wrongly,u care for the negligible things with your brother.
its sad but i hv to thanks u,cos u taught me strong.
now i knew u more than a brother could know.
kindly speaking,if u tend to treat your brother tis way,u r losing the meaning of brother.
life goes on.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
i can only to tell myself to be positive right now.
when the luck was not with me,and i still told myself to be positive and patient.
i knew it is a time factor that challenge.
all i know is to be calm and analyse the current but how could i do tis?
i found it hard sometimes and no body helps.
i dont hv back up nor support.
i was daunted by fears.
can i go through tis?i dont know.
since when i am afraid of failure?
i should not afraid of any!!must do it!
when the luck was not with me,and i still told myself to be positive and patient.
i knew it is a time factor that challenge.
all i know is to be calm and analyse the current but how could i do tis?
i found it hard sometimes and no body helps.
i dont hv back up nor support.
i was daunted by fears.
can i go through tis?i dont know.
since when i am afraid of failure?
i should not afraid of any!!must do it!
Monday, February 1, 2010
今天脑海里常出现的一句：“一个人之所以快乐不是因为他拥有得多，是因为他计较得少。”
很久不写了，其实有很多话想说，但都写不出来，所以这里较冷清啦。
心情又点差，没想那么多，就冷静点来看待事情吧！
我相信每个人都有自己生活的方式，因人而异吧！
对于生活，我觉得“大事化小，小事当无事，日子就过得好点吧！”
我的道理呢，简单，就是不计较。
不管别人怎样说，怎么想，怎么对我，我依然是我，不会改变的。
数学不好啦，不喜欢斤斤计较，还好，混熟的朋友都懂我。
生活这样最好，免了很多不开心，对人好，也是对自己好。
很久不写了，其实有很多话想说，但都写不出来，所以这里较冷清啦。
心情又点差，没想那么多，就冷静点来看待事情吧！
我相信每个人都有自己生活的方式，因人而异吧！
对于生活，我觉得“大事化小，小事当无事，日子就过得好点吧！”
我的道理呢，简单，就是不计较。
不管别人怎样说，怎么想，怎么对我，我依然是我，不会改变的。
数学不好啦，不喜欢斤斤计较，还好，混熟的朋友都懂我。
生活这样最好，免了很多不开心，对人好，也是对自己好。
