今早起身不久，就在facebook看到一个消息，一位朋友的好友过世了。
虽然不认识，依然感慨着，人生就这样结束了。
死亡很可怕，谁也抵挡不过啊！
生命很短暂，
若不在喜欢的时候说出口，
不在有机会的时后珍惜，
谁也没得再来的机会。
很多人只懂得埋怨，说这差，那个不公平，活得好不愉快啊。
自问，有事情是完美的吗？
完美只是个假像，追求完美，其实只是追求空虚的假象罢了。
就算别人没对你付出，你也可以不求回报的付出。
试问有必要事事精准计算吗？
他人没对你好，你就不该对他好吗？
为何不能以不求回报作为出发点，真心地付出，其实更快乐！
我相信人与人之间有爱，情感的存在。
如果爱了就对他好，关心她，了解他，原谅他，人之所以伟大是因为爱！
当然也没必要去恨谁！
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
feel like being humble is good.
that is once human will feel like themself were already good enough.
mayb,its really good but i mean dont only think that express ownself superior than others.
there is no need to underestimate others.
there is many ppl, things we need to comprehend in life,it never end.
there is a bunch of ppl better than us.
there is something that we dont hv in our mind, but others may hv.
respect everyone,insist to learn from them.
we r just small,little,minor in this planet.
what is the figure if 1 per 6.8billion?one of us is just stand for tat portion.
it taught me to be humble.
be a learner whenever.
that is once human will feel like themself were already good enough.
mayb,its really good but i mean dont only think that express ownself superior than others.
there is no need to underestimate others.
there is many ppl, things we need to comprehend in life,it never end.
there is a bunch of ppl better than us.
there is something that we dont hv in our mind, but others may hv.
respect everyone,insist to learn from them.
we r just small,little,minor in this planet.
what is the figure if 1 per 6.8billion?one of us is just stand for tat portion.
it taught me to be humble.
be a learner whenever.
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
i was going downstair to buy some foods,i was in a lift,when the lift moving down to lower floor,a group of girls coming in,i found that she stand at least 1 feet taller than me,hah!
then i turned my sight to others,i found that they r almost the same feet with me.
yeah,that is me,around 160cm i guess..very impressive.
many was telling that i'm poorly short,but why should i care?bcs they care?
do i live lower than people if i stand lower than them?
haha!!hey,man,it doesnt make sense at all!!
do u look down upon short guys?
because they hv incapability of jumping high to catch the star on sky?
or they dont playing good in basketball?
nonono,tall 1 actly good in outlooking i guess.
i dont define a person by looking at whether how tall they r.
height seems very important huh?
yeah,many,they compare and despise on people who is shorter.
how if u go western country?their average height is definitely higher than people living here.
do u think people look down upon u bcs u r shorter than?
no,they dont act silly.
so?if u laugh at someone short,pls brush yr brain.
one day,u will laugh yrself if u beat by a short guy.
here i m still standing straight and proud!
anyway,i find myself awesome.
=D
then i turned my sight to others,i found that they r almost the same feet with me.
yeah,that is me,around 160cm i guess..very impressive.
many was telling that i'm poorly short,but why should i care?bcs they care?
do i live lower than people if i stand lower than them?
haha!!hey,man,it doesnt make sense at all!!
do u look down upon short guys?
because they hv incapability of jumping high to catch the star on sky?
or they dont playing good in basketball?
nonono,tall 1 actly good in outlooking i guess.
i dont define a person by looking at whether how tall they r.
height seems very important huh?
yeah,many,they compare and despise on people who is shorter.
how if u go western country?their average height is definitely higher than people living here.
do u think people look down upon u bcs u r shorter than?
no,they dont act silly.
so?if u laugh at someone short,pls brush yr brain.
one day,u will laugh yrself if u beat by a short guy.
here i m still standing straight and proud!
anyway,i find myself awesome.
=D
Sunday, October 18, 2009
i hv no comment for this moment.
yet,i shouldnt hv any.
then i prefer silent.
actually,i dont talk much.
but u may find me talk a lot sometimes,but not now.
what a lazy sunday.
zZZ
yet,i shouldnt hv any.
then i prefer silent.
actually,i dont talk much.
but u may find me talk a lot sometimes,but not now.
what a lazy sunday.
zZZ
Friday, October 16, 2009
人生是痛苦，还是快乐的？
我说，不计较，不做比较，就是快乐的。
从小我们就被教导所谓：一个人快乐满足不是因为拥有得多，而是他计较得少，对吧？
可能执着的那一刻，你想不开。
过了不久，你会发现，那个你，不理智...其实没什么大不了！
最近，也看透了不少事情，感谢身边的每个，对我好的坏的，都让我学习。
无论怎么样，我的原则不会被改变，只会成长，开阔。
我不会再盲目，不会再鲁莽了。
生活最需要想法，有了想法就有目标，为了目标奋斗，才有意义。
我说，不计较，不做比较，就是快乐的。
从小我们就被教导所谓：一个人快乐满足不是因为拥有得多，而是他计较得少，对吧？
可能执着的那一刻，你想不开。
过了不久，你会发现，那个你，不理智...其实没什么大不了！
最近，也看透了不少事情，感谢身边的每个，对我好的坏的，都让我学习。
无论怎么样，我的原则不会被改变，只会成长，开阔。
我不会再盲目，不会再鲁莽了。
生活最需要想法，有了想法就有目标，为了目标奋斗，才有意义。
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
tis morning,i had been told to be objective from a "bacteria expertist"...
kinda of funny,when he hands out a survey evaluation form to us.
asking us to evaluate his lecture as well,uh!
he told that we should criticize in negative and emotional way...
sound like warning us not to write bad thing.
in fact,he ought to have our best "compliment" mar...
i could say,u r almost perfect in hypnotherapy rather than conducting a lecture.
so imagine how did i fill up?haha,i think most of the people did like me...
he was damn proud with all those damn detailed,specific, deep scientific names of bacteria,and thats all.
i dont think he is teaching on lecture.
well,keep on playing reused slide,talking how power the bacteria works, yet giving us a nonsense course so.
the course is so called microbiology,but we r forced to memorize bacteria names,temp,pH,uh, i should say luckily not to memorize on Genomic sequence of bacteria...kinda boring and non-applicable course...but i turns it as lucky,we dont need to think hard,do hard,just simply memorize.
i consider it extremely useless,okay,tell u why.in future,if we require a detail regards to those temperature,pH,do we refers?o we can directly seek it out from brain?i m sure that even u r pretty confirm,u still refer ,so why u memorize?
LOL~millions n billions of names but by picking some of them , and use as study material...so at last what did u learn?
likewise to "biodiversity" ?penang turtle scientific name is tested?
woah...pls lah!!take a breath and reconsider,as u say,we r already APEX!!!!
why still doing all these...we learn nothing from it,graduate with useless stuff....
kinda of funny,when he hands out a survey evaluation form to us.
asking us to evaluate his lecture as well,uh!
he told that we should criticize in negative and emotional way...
sound like warning us not to write bad thing.
in fact,he ought to have our best "compliment" mar...
i could say,u r almost perfect in hypnotherapy rather than conducting a lecture.
so imagine how did i fill up?haha,i think most of the people did like me...
he was damn proud with all those damn detailed,specific, deep scientific names of bacteria,and thats all.
i dont think he is teaching on lecture.
well,keep on playing reused slide,talking how power the bacteria works, yet giving us a nonsense course so.
the course is so called microbiology,but we r forced to memorize bacteria names,temp,pH,uh, i should say luckily not to memorize on Genomic sequence of bacteria...kinda boring and non-applicable course...but i turns it as lucky,we dont need to think hard,do hard,just simply memorize.
i consider it extremely useless,okay,tell u why.in future,if we require a detail regards to those temperature,pH,do we refers?o we can directly seek it out from brain?i m sure that even u r pretty confirm,u still refer ,so why u memorize?
LOL~millions n billions of names but by picking some of them , and use as study material...so at last what did u learn?
likewise to "biodiversity" ?penang turtle scientific name is tested?
woah...pls lah!!take a breath and reconsider,as u say,we r already APEX!!!!
why still doing all these...we learn nothing from it,graduate with useless stuff....
Saturday, October 10, 2009
friend is someone who smile at u,say hi to u,as usually they have good moment with u of course.
but will they change their mind on u one day?
will them stab yr back without a clear understanding?
i define 2 type of friend in life:
1.so called friend
2.true friend
True friend never change his/her mind on u,so no backstabbing.
Trustworthy is really exist.whenever,whatever they will stay.
Their hands are always there for u, without return they wish.
They dont judge u because they know u.
They dont argue,they talk,comment,smile.
When something went wrong,they used to be a good accompanion , good listener.
seriously,true friend is getting extinct,selffishness is human nature.
kind but not blind is me.
but will they change their mind on u one day?
will them stab yr back without a clear understanding?
i define 2 type of friend in life:
1.so called friend
2.true friend
True friend never change his/her mind on u,so no backstabbing.
Trustworthy is really exist.whenever,whatever they will stay.
Their hands are always there for u, without return they wish.
They dont judge u because they know u.
They dont argue,they talk,comment,smile.
When something went wrong,they used to be a good accompanion , good listener.
seriously,true friend is getting extinct,selffishness is human nature.
kind but not blind is me.
Thursday, October 8, 2009
i got the reminder,i was not good in what i'm in now.
no matter, study nor love.
ppl comments were right,i must brush up.
study was quite heavy to me,could it has another way to gain knowledge?
at first till now,i was still reluctant to study on the subjects headed to me.
woah...i shouldnt make it harder.
for now,i shall just do n less questioning.
in love.i was holding too tight.
i admit,i act likely overcare when i was really care.
well,it not caring already,its more like carrying?
i started to know,even with the purpose of caring but sometimes i failed to give freedom,failed to be less tense,failed be to understanding.
haha,to have self-critism,then improvement,of course!
no matter, study nor love.
ppl comments were right,i must brush up.
study was quite heavy to me,could it has another way to gain knowledge?
at first till now,i was still reluctant to study on the subjects headed to me.
woah...i shouldnt make it harder.
for now,i shall just do n less questioning.
in love.i was holding too tight.
i admit,i act likely overcare when i was really care.
well,it not caring already,its more like carrying?
i started to know,even with the purpose of caring but sometimes i failed to give freedom,failed to be less tense,failed be to understanding.
haha,to have self-critism,then improvement,of course!
since i dont feel like to slp yet,i came blogging here.
recently?i shall say: its still okay!
just bit short of money but if saving still okay.
just little hectic in interval yet i have time to enjoy somehow.
just sometimes apt to feel struggle,while finally i will find a way to relieve.
i dont wish to get more,life is no need reluctant,catch it easy way.
happiness is the first!
recently?i shall say: its still okay!
just bit short of money but if saving still okay.
just little hectic in interval yet i have time to enjoy somehow.
just sometimes apt to feel struggle,while finally i will find a way to relieve.
i dont wish to get more,life is no need reluctant,catch it easy way.
happiness is the first!
1am,the night is still young?
perhaps,to somebody its just the beginning of night.
i dont know...usually go to bed b4 it.i cant no more working hard at midnight,body is not feeling well after it.
my mind was not working well through out the day,felt like blur~
spent morning time at lab,noon for study and minor test, and night time gaming...
felt like i shouldnt play DoTA anymore.i shall quit.
okay...i kept on feeling like 2day was friday,haha,i guess i was so looking forward to weekend,weekend makes me feel more relaxing...ya,it should be.
while sunrise,its really friday already,yeah!
i like friday,cos friday has saturday n sunday ahead?yes,weekends!!
well,i gotta make my weekend worth tis time.
perhaps,to somebody its just the beginning of night.
i dont know...usually go to bed b4 it.i cant no more working hard at midnight,body is not feeling well after it.
my mind was not working well through out the day,felt like blur~
spent morning time at lab,noon for study and minor test, and night time gaming...
felt like i shouldnt play DoTA anymore.i shall quit.
okay...i kept on feeling like 2day was friday,haha,i guess i was so looking forward to weekend,weekend makes me feel more relaxing...ya,it should be.
while sunrise,its really friday already,yeah!
i like friday,cos friday has saturday n sunday ahead?yes,weekends!!
well,i gotta make my weekend worth tis time.
Monday, October 5, 2009
日常中一说到男人，总是与“大”相随，如：大老爷们、大男人、男子汉大丈夫等等。相对而言女性总是以“小弱”来形容，如：小女子、弱妇女。孔子一个句话，让千百年来的妇女受尽冤屈：“唯女子与小人难养也”。古代说某人不象男子，则往往以妇人耻辱之，如妇人之见，妇人之仁等等。诸葛亮六出祈山，欲激司马懿出战，专门派人给司马懿送来“巾帼妇人之饰”(《晋书·宣帝纪》)。好象男人就是山，应该伟岸陡峭；是天，应该宽渊博大；是太阳，应当阳刚热闹。
男人须大。但大在何方，又怎样成其大？
物品大一般用长宽高来形容。实在，大男人也有长宽高三种要素，缺一不可：
长目光要长远。风物长宜放眼量。是大男人，一定要把眼力放远些。男人要有幻想，通俗点就是有野心、有幻想，要敢于做梦，哪怕是白日梦。我常说：梦，能使人走得更远，飞得更高。连梦都不敢做的男人，尽对不是男人！一句广告语说得好：心有多大，人生的舞台就有多大。当然，立志从远，行事从小。先正心修身齐家，然后才干治国平天下。不积跬步，无以至千里；扫一室始，扫天下终。
宽心胸要宽广。海纳百川，有容乃大。大男人必定有度量、能大气。有副对联，说弥勒佛的：“大肚能容，容天下难容之事；启齿便笑，笑天下可笑之人。”大男人应能容天下之事。男人尽对不能鸡肠鼠肚，琐屑较量，为一已得失耿耿于怀，为鸡毛蒜皮杯葛不清。“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”。有个“六尺巷”的故事，说两个权贵家争地，互不相让，写信告到京城。某权贵一笑：“千里修书只为墙，让他三尺又何妨，万里长城今犹在，不见当年秦始皇。”这才是真正的宰相肚里能撑船，很有点大气。心胸宽广的人才干干成事业，心胸狭小的人永远难成大业。“心有多宽，路有多广”，男人应以广阔的胸怀和包容的性情往面对人和事。
高思想要有高度。我一直以为：男人可以无势力，但不可无境界。男人必需有自己的精力家园。《圣经》中说没有精力家园的人是迷途的羔羊，只能随波逐流、得过且过。王安石有句诗：“不畏浮云遮看眼，只缘身在最高层。”只有站在精力高地上俯瞰芸芸众生、审阅心坎世界，才干看得远，看得开，就如佛家讲悟禅，要跳出三界外。现实生涯中不可能阳春白雪、一尘不染，大男人也不可能都象屈原一样抱石沉江。可以进乡顺俗，但尽不能使自己进乡变俗；可以和光同尘，但不能使自己去光成尘。男人应当柔刚相济、主静躲锋，穷则独善其身，达则兼济天下。人生不可能始终一帆风顺，虎落平川时，也必定要时时提示自己是只虎，不能把自己当成犬。
大男子的做人要三分淡泊，七份韵致；做事要三分从容，七份潇洒。男人必需有自己的棱角和个性，我不爱好没有棱角个性的油滑之人。李白得到唐玄宗的诏书，大喜若狂：“仰天大笑出门往，我辈岂是蓬蒿人。”真正的大男人，即使媚俗也远比市井中人媚得可爱！
人生就象一条河，我们可能无法转变河流的来源，也无法断定河流的的终点，但可以尽力去拓展河流的宽度，加强奔跑的力气。我们可以使自己生涯变得快活些，日子过得滋润点，为人活得潇洒点。
泰山不让土壤，方能成其大；江海不拒细流，方能成其深。男人应当不断往扩大自己的长宽高，尽力使变成一个有思想有品味的人、一个真正大写的人！那么就必定能够快意人生、纵横江湖、游刃天地！
男人须大。但大在何方，又怎样成其大？
物品大一般用长宽高来形容。实在，大男人也有长宽高三种要素，缺一不可：
长目光要长远。风物长宜放眼量。是大男人，一定要把眼力放远些。男人要有幻想，通俗点就是有野心、有幻想，要敢于做梦，哪怕是白日梦。我常说：梦，能使人走得更远，飞得更高。连梦都不敢做的男人，尽对不是男人！一句广告语说得好：心有多大，人生的舞台就有多大。当然，立志从远，行事从小。先正心修身齐家，然后才干治国平天下。不积跬步，无以至千里；扫一室始，扫天下终。
宽心胸要宽广。海纳百川，有容乃大。大男人必定有度量、能大气。有副对联，说弥勒佛的：“大肚能容，容天下难容之事；启齿便笑，笑天下可笑之人。”大男人应能容天下之事。男人尽对不能鸡肠鼠肚，琐屑较量，为一已得失耿耿于怀，为鸡毛蒜皮杯葛不清。“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”。有个“六尺巷”的故事，说两个权贵家争地，互不相让，写信告到京城。某权贵一笑：“千里修书只为墙，让他三尺又何妨，万里长城今犹在，不见当年秦始皇。”这才是真正的宰相肚里能撑船，很有点大气。心胸宽广的人才干干成事业，心胸狭小的人永远难成大业。“心有多宽，路有多广”，男人应以广阔的胸怀和包容的性情往面对人和事。
高思想要有高度。我一直以为：男人可以无势力，但不可无境界。男人必需有自己的精力家园。《圣经》中说没有精力家园的人是迷途的羔羊，只能随波逐流、得过且过。王安石有句诗：“不畏浮云遮看眼，只缘身在最高层。”只有站在精力高地上俯瞰芸芸众生、审阅心坎世界，才干看得远，看得开，就如佛家讲悟禅，要跳出三界外。现实生涯中不可能阳春白雪、一尘不染，大男人也不可能都象屈原一样抱石沉江。可以进乡顺俗，但尽不能使自己进乡变俗；可以和光同尘，但不能使自己去光成尘。男人应当柔刚相济、主静躲锋，穷则独善其身，达则兼济天下。人生不可能始终一帆风顺，虎落平川时，也必定要时时提示自己是只虎，不能把自己当成犬。
大男子的做人要三分淡泊，七份韵致；做事要三分从容，七份潇洒。男人必需有自己的棱角和个性，我不爱好没有棱角个性的油滑之人。李白得到唐玄宗的诏书，大喜若狂：“仰天大笑出门往，我辈岂是蓬蒿人。”真正的大男人，即使媚俗也远比市井中人媚得可爱！
人生就象一条河，我们可能无法转变河流的来源，也无法断定河流的的终点，但可以尽力去拓展河流的宽度，加强奔跑的力气。我们可以使自己生涯变得快活些，日子过得滋润点，为人活得潇洒点。
泰山不让土壤，方能成其大；江海不拒细流，方能成其深。男人应当不断往扩大自己的长宽高，尽力使变成一个有思想有品味的人、一个真正大写的人！那么就必定能够快意人生、纵横江湖、游刃天地！
Saturday, October 3, 2009
i need rearrangement.
i m lost again..who blocks my way?of course is myself.
stayed up so late,blogging like donkey!!
spent whole day doing nonsense..
well,i dont get anything i wanted.
i need to rearrange tis by 2moro,work out my study,assignment and else.
not wasting time to talk nonsense and think too much.
i m lost again..who blocks my way?of course is myself.
stayed up so late,blogging like donkey!!
spent whole day doing nonsense..
well,i dont get anything i wanted.
i need to rearrange tis by 2moro,work out my study,assignment and else.
not wasting time to talk nonsense and think too much.
u need to be alone?
okay,i knw,just go ahead.
u will find me when u need me,i will show up as possible.
sometimes...i was speechless,yeah,ntg to express..
feeling so lonely recently, i was never neglect u in my mind.
okay,i agreed.i was sticky,bothering till u cant breath.
so? i will start adjusting,adjusting myself to solo?
come on...wat fault?!!
actly,i just need u.no need anything more,just a little concern...
okay,i knw,just go ahead.
u will find me when u need me,i will show up as possible.
sometimes...i was speechless,yeah,ntg to express..
feeling so lonely recently, i was never neglect u in my mind.
okay,i agreed.i was sticky,bothering till u cant breath.
so? i will start adjusting,adjusting myself to solo?
come on...wat fault?!!
actly,i just need u.no need anything more,just a little concern...
exam was closing...pressure was rising...
i need to catch up as fast.
i was left out far behind,small test results were poor.
anyway, life is not so smooth recently..
i felt like i was not a good student,not a good fren,not a good bf,not a good human being...
i cant cope with all i hv,it is too fast than i can catch.
i cant smile when i need to smile.
i cant cry when i feel like crying.
i cant be piss while i hv to control my emotion.
i cant cheers up when i was down.
i felt sorry most of the time.
yeah,tis is life!
i need to catch up as fast.
i was left out far behind,small test results were poor.
anyway, life is not so smooth recently..
i felt like i was not a good student,not a good fren,not a good bf,not a good human being...
i cant cope with all i hv,it is too fast than i can catch.
i cant smile when i need to smile.
i cant cry when i feel like crying.
i cant be piss while i hv to control my emotion.
i cant cheers up when i was down.
i felt sorry most of the time.
yeah,tis is life!
