人真是奇怪的一种动物，就是喜欢没事找事做，总是把东西搞杂了，再来吵一翻。
无聊，就是人的特征，可是太过份的，还真多。
想法，有分你我他，当然有差异，更难的是去改变他人想法，因为是痛苦的。
忧伤，是因为无可奈何。
远离，是我最好的选择。
决定，是要坚持着，决定了就冲到终点才停下吧。
Thursday, April 1, 2010
dont u feel familiar with those stories from someone scold their roomate,housemate using msn title,facebook,or set up a blogger to keep people's bad in words.
i just dont feel it right,anyway.
for sure that,we only pick our good closed friend and consent to stay 2gether with them.
why now u FUCK?
its doubtful for yr decision since u yrself made the decision to stay with yr lovely friend at first,but now only u turn yr back on them as u turn yr finger towards yrself?
come on,everyone did mistakes as u yrself is doing fucking big mistake.
for anything u scold like a ghost also wont help la!!
my advice to this kind of people is that u must beg people to tolerate u bcs u cant tolerate them.
sad to say that i have one friend,he is so nice that often post something to scold me and i always stay calm until today.
i dont think wat i said my roomate will listen since i told him many times abt tis.
everyone is home now but my lovely friend still using thunder to download porn and i discovered this on his laptop.
i feel ashame to hv a roomate like tis,seriously.
i just dont feel it right,anyway.
for sure that,we only pick our good closed friend and consent to stay 2gether with them.
why now u FUCK?
its doubtful for yr decision since u yrself made the decision to stay with yr lovely friend at first,but now only u turn yr back on them as u turn yr finger towards yrself?
come on,everyone did mistakes as u yrself is doing fucking big mistake.
for anything u scold like a ghost also wont help la!!
my advice to this kind of people is that u must beg people to tolerate u bcs u cant tolerate them.
sad to say that i have one friend,he is so nice that often post something to scold me and i always stay calm until today.
i dont think wat i said my roomate will listen since i told him many times abt tis.
everyone is home now but my lovely friend still using thunder to download porn and i discovered this on his laptop.
i feel ashame to hv a roomate like tis,seriously.
i guess i m the one who dont know how to say "hi" or even "i'm sorry" if i m wrong.
my temper was so bad recently, and i dont think i like it.
i need to do something to take control of it anyhow.
i felt sorry.
my temper was so bad recently, and i dont think i like it.
i need to do something to take control of it anyhow.
i felt sorry.
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
看了个短片，里头的主角，四肢全无，但他能积极地生活，游泳，打高尔夫，摔倒了这就站得起来，很成功还到处去给讲座，激励了世界上许多正常人。
有些人没了双手没了双脚，还可以过得很乐观，开朗地认真生活。
但有些人只不过为了点小事，就喊着要死了，在他脑里，这样活着应该是很痛苦吧！
其实，举这两例子比较，很明显的，大家都知道这两个人面对生活的看法不同，也导致了他们生活的差距。
其实，差距不是在于人或状况，是在于想法，对待事物的观念。
如果老是跟人做比较，说啊，谁有样貌，谁谁有钱啊，谁更有才华样貌啊，是多余的。
比较多了，人就会开始埋怨，嫌自己拥有的不好，同时就错过了人生的很多很多人与事物。
换来的却是不开心，累又挣扎的日子，也许大半背子就白白浪费了。
我可不想这样，所以我要学习乐观面对生活。
其实生气这样东西很厉害，说真的，谁会喜欢生气？
但遍遍就是为了大小事就生气了起来，没人喜欢，但就不是还会生气？
若能在要生气时，卸下这口气，调整一下看待事情的方式，相信事情的结果会更好吧！
学会不生气，学会放下是一种成长！
为什么没手脚的人可以很快乐，完美无缺的人却不能？
反而，那个正常人应该更幸福吧，其实大家都一样是可以选择快乐地过，只要不比较，放下不该执着的，就好了。
有些人没了双手没了双脚，还可以过得很乐观，开朗地认真生活。
但有些人只不过为了点小事，就喊着要死了，在他脑里，这样活着应该是很痛苦吧！
其实，举这两例子比较，很明显的，大家都知道这两个人面对生活的看法不同，也导致了他们生活的差距。
其实，差距不是在于人或状况，是在于想法，对待事物的观念。
如果老是跟人做比较，说啊，谁有样貌，谁谁有钱啊，谁更有才华样貌啊，是多余的。
比较多了，人就会开始埋怨，嫌自己拥有的不好，同时就错过了人生的很多很多人与事物。
换来的却是不开心，累又挣扎的日子，也许大半背子就白白浪费了。
我可不想这样，所以我要学习乐观面对生活。
其实生气这样东西很厉害，说真的，谁会喜欢生气？
但遍遍就是为了大小事就生气了起来，没人喜欢，但就不是还会生气？
若能在要生气时，卸下这口气，调整一下看待事情的方式，相信事情的结果会更好吧！
学会不生气，学会放下是一种成长！
为什么没手脚的人可以很快乐，完美无缺的人却不能？
反而，那个正常人应该更幸福吧，其实大家都一样是可以选择快乐地过，只要不比较，放下不该执着的，就好了。
Saturday, March 6, 2010
look back to last year,last month even yesterday,still i could identify the changes of me.
i had learned that being a good guy was not easy at all.
i m not saying that i m excellent one,but im always willing lend out my helping hands whenever there is a call for it.
not to wait for the return favour, never purposely do so.
but wat is pathetic is that, people dont appreciate it.
this is the root cause where i hv to learn give up and take an ease off for yrself.
i will not care if they dont even concern for my sake.
but it doesnt mean that i turn to be like someone that acted to me, i still the same and never expect me to polish the apple.
many are doing selffishness, though, why should i turn to be like them?
to simply sum up,if i dont like the way other treated me,i wont treat to anyone like that too.
i just dont care.
i had learned that being a good guy was not easy at all.
i m not saying that i m excellent one,but im always willing lend out my helping hands whenever there is a call for it.
not to wait for the return favour, never purposely do so.
but wat is pathetic is that, people dont appreciate it.
this is the root cause where i hv to learn give up and take an ease off for yrself.
i will not care if they dont even concern for my sake.
but it doesnt mean that i turn to be like someone that acted to me, i still the same and never expect me to polish the apple.
many are doing selffishness, though, why should i turn to be like them?
to simply sum up,if i dont like the way other treated me,i wont treat to anyone like that too.
i just dont care.
Monday, February 8, 2010
although the days were down,but dont fret.
i knew it will be better in future,i told myself.
it isn't hopeless,there will never be hopeless!
for most things that run down,dont daunt to it.
take it on to fight back,as long as i m gaining something as least,experience.
keeep yr chin up.
fight till the last breath.
i knew it will be better in future,i told myself.
it isn't hopeless,there will never be hopeless!
for most things that run down,dont daunt to it.
take it on to fight back,as long as i m gaining something as least,experience.
keeep yr chin up.
fight till the last breath.
Sunday, February 7, 2010
remembered the word BROTHER.
i just remember how it came but dont know how to forget...
its sad that a brotherhood could somehow change.
everyone does silly mistake,dont u?
i dont feel the need to enlarge people mistake and say something rude.
its like cut on yr bro,cut on the brotherhood.
look at it deeply,i found that it is not real,but fake.
which means i look at u wrongly,u care for the negligible things with your brother.
its sad but i hv to thanks u,cos u taught me strong.
now i knew u more than a brother could know.
kindly speaking,if u tend to treat your brother tis way,u r losing the meaning of brother.
life goes on.
i just remember how it came but dont know how to forget...
its sad that a brotherhood could somehow change.
everyone does silly mistake,dont u?
i dont feel the need to enlarge people mistake and say something rude.
its like cut on yr bro,cut on the brotherhood.
look at it deeply,i found that it is not real,but fake.
which means i look at u wrongly,u care for the negligible things with your brother.
its sad but i hv to thanks u,cos u taught me strong.
now i knew u more than a brother could know.
kindly speaking,if u tend to treat your brother tis way,u r losing the meaning of brother.
life goes on.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
i can only to tell myself to be positive right now.
when the luck was not with me,and i still told myself to be positive and patient.
i knew it is a time factor that challenge.
all i know is to be calm and analyse the current but how could i do tis?
i found it hard sometimes and no body helps.
i dont hv back up nor support.
i was daunted by fears.
can i go through tis?i dont know.
since when i am afraid of failure?
i should not afraid of any!!must do it!
when the luck was not with me,and i still told myself to be positive and patient.
i knew it is a time factor that challenge.
all i know is to be calm and analyse the current but how could i do tis?
i found it hard sometimes and no body helps.
i dont hv back up nor support.
i was daunted by fears.
can i go through tis?i dont know.
since when i am afraid of failure?
i should not afraid of any!!must do it!
Monday, February 1, 2010
今天脑海里常出现的一句：“一个人之所以快乐不是因为他拥有得多，是因为他计较得少。”
很久不写了，其实有很多话想说，但都写不出来，所以这里较冷清啦。
心情又点差，没想那么多，就冷静点来看待事情吧！
我相信每个人都有自己生活的方式，因人而异吧！
对于生活，我觉得“大事化小，小事当无事，日子就过得好点吧！”
我的道理呢，简单，就是不计较。
不管别人怎样说，怎么想，怎么对我，我依然是我，不会改变的。
数学不好啦，不喜欢斤斤计较，还好，混熟的朋友都懂我。
生活这样最好，免了很多不开心，对人好，也是对自己好。
很久不写了，其实有很多话想说，但都写不出来，所以这里较冷清啦。
心情又点差，没想那么多，就冷静点来看待事情吧！
我相信每个人都有自己生活的方式，因人而异吧！
对于生活，我觉得“大事化小，小事当无事，日子就过得好点吧！”
我的道理呢，简单，就是不计较。
不管别人怎样说，怎么想，怎么对我，我依然是我，不会改变的。
数学不好啦，不喜欢斤斤计较，还好，混熟的朋友都懂我。
生活这样最好，免了很多不开心，对人好，也是对自己好。
Thursday, January 14, 2010
当他不爱你的时候,无论过去他是否爱过后来却忘了,或者是否从未爱过。当你无法成为他心里的那个人的时候,他的心便不会记得你。虽然他知道你深爱他,但他宁可选择装作是不知道。
当他不爱你的时候,请不要在你不开心,或者是遇到麻烦而彷徨的时候去打搅他。他那儿绝对不是你此刻应该的去处。也许他会在接到你的电话的时候,淡淡地安慰你几句,却也仅此而已。也许你会再想要什么,于是说:"我们见面吧."而他肯定心有烦躁了.当他不爱你的时候,你的爱,你的人,就会显得廉价许多..你占了下风,这是人的本性。他会说:"好,不过我现在有点儿事情。晚一点的时候你再给我电话吧。或者我给你电话也可以。"而你这时千万不要当真,他只是找了个不是很高明的理由来搪塞你。请,不要真的去等,不要骗自己。
当他不爱你的时候,请不要与他讲你的琐事,也许此刻,你不过是希望让彼此更熟悉一些。只是,他却无暇更是没有兴趣去了解你,你的生活,你的过去,你的长处短处与他又何干?即使讲了他也很快会忘记的,就如他忘记你的生日,你的地址,你的电话一样.没有爱,于是你注定挤不进他的生命.即使,你要的哪怕只是一很小很小的角落..
当他不爱你的时候,请不要在他的面前流眼泪,不要在生病的时候告诉他。他无法给予你照顾和关心,至多是同情一下而已,请骄傲的你,不要放弃本来属于你的骄傲。虽然太多的人,在爱的面前丢失了太多。连站起来的勇气都没有,何来骄傲?只是,要记得,只有爱自己的人,才可以真正地去疼惜你。而不是,旁观的同情、怜悯。
当他不爱你的时候,你的爱便是他的负担。请不要去计算自己的付出,不要希望有什么回报。爱着不爱自己的人,本身便是没有回报的。不要计较对与错,这样会快乐些。要记住,你与他之间的爱,是单方面的,你用心,他无心。所以,也不要怪他。因为也许他也想做好一些。对你不要那样的冷漠。其实,爱一个人,对一个人好。本来就是一种本能。对不起,他没有这样的本能。
当他不爱你的时候,请不要失去自己的自信。因为爱一个人,并非他的优秀,而只是一种感觉。他让你有这样的感觉,于是你爱他。同样,他不爱你,也并非你不优秀。优秀,不是爱的理由。看看还有那么多爱自己的人,淡淡地微笑一下,也是异样甜美的。
当他不爱你的时候,也一定要祝福他。有了爱,便不该有恨。爱是美好的,恨却丑陋。何必让生命中最美好的东西化作丑恶呢?也不要觉得不公平。关于离去,他失去的是一个爱他的人,而你失去了一个不爱你的人,却得到了一个重新生活,重新去爱的机会。请不要去想到"永远",爱没有永远。你此刻深爱,却注定遥远的某一天也不再爱他。他只是比你早一步到达了这一天。当他不爱你的时候,请轻轻拥抱一下回忆里的温暖,轻柔地凝视凋谢的温柔。
当他不再爱你的时候,请你深深呼吸,一生的路上,铺满了爱的花蕾,总有那么一朵属于你,不是安慰你..
当他不爱你的时候,请不要在你不开心,或者是遇到麻烦而
当他不爱你的时候,请不要与他讲你的琐事,也许此刻,你
当他不爱你的时候,请不要在他的面前流眼泪,不要在生病
当他不爱你的时候,你的爱便是他的负担。请不要去计算自
当他不爱你的时候,请不要失去自己的自信。因为爱一个人
当他不爱你的时候,也一定要祝福他。有了爱,便不该有恨
当他不再爱你的时候,请你深深呼吸,一生的路上,铺满了
seriously,i felt like i act abnormally,i think in different way compare to my peers.
and this is how lead me to wonder,what kind of personality i m...
its a sad outcome that i cant response to myself whether who i m.
i dont know how to express myself anymore.
u know,i faced something that cause me MAD,but i cant be MAD.
i know i hv to be calm,so i dint shout and its happening internally...
its a good way to handle thing?
i really dont know...
sometimes,straight forward is kind of relieving...but i just cant make it..
this is my bad,i m ground on the floor now,kind of down.
losing way to express.
and this is how lead me to wonder,what kind of personality i m...
its a sad outcome that i cant response to myself whether who i m.
i dont know how to express myself anymore.
u know,i faced something that cause me MAD,but i cant be MAD.
i know i hv to be calm,so i dint shout and its happening internally...
its a good way to handle thing?
i really dont know...
sometimes,straight forward is kind of relieving...but i just cant make it..
this is my bad,i m ground on the floor now,kind of down.
losing way to express.
Friday, January 8, 2010
i dont know what is going on with the situation where A & B were not sastisfied with each other.
their situation was mess up.
A complaining B,but B was complaining A at the same time.
the problem is they r sharing one room.
then they came to me,keep on telling each other mistakes,grumble again started.
i really wish i could bear their problem,just let them throw into me,how nice if i could possibly do this.
actly no big deal,but they...they r crazy.
they dont listen to me,what they do will be making the problem bigger.
i dont know what to do,who should i listen?
yeah,there is no conversation between them.
they r making me down...
to tell them stay calm to talk?i did number of times ard.
it has no end in this way.
i wanna shout!!!i wanna run!!i wanna be okay!!
their situation was mess up.
A complaining B,but B was complaining A at the same time.
the problem is they r sharing one room.
then they came to me,keep on telling each other mistakes,grumble again started.
i really wish i could bear their problem,just let them throw into me,how nice if i could possibly do this.
actly no big deal,but they...they r crazy.
they dont listen to me,what they do will be making the problem bigger.
i dont know what to do,who should i listen?
yeah,there is no conversation between them.
they r making me down...
to tell them stay calm to talk?i did number of times ard.
it has no end in this way.
i wanna shout!!!i wanna run!!i wanna be okay!!
