on 6:35 AM

i guess i m the one who dont know how to say "hi" or even "i'm sorry" if i m wrong.
my temper was so bad recently, and i dont think i like it.
i need to do something to take control of it anyhow.
i felt sorry.

生活爽就好!

on 4:13 AM

看了个短片,里头的主角,四肢全无,但他能积极地生活,游泳,打高尔夫,摔倒了这就站得起来,很成功还到处去给讲座,激励了世界上许多正常人。
有些人没了双手没了双脚,还可以过得很乐观,开朗地认真生活。
但有些人只不过为了点小事,就喊着要死了,在他脑里,这样活着应该是很痛苦吧!
其实,举这两例子比较,很明显的,大家都知道这两个人面对生活的看法不同,也导致了他们生活的差距。
其实,差距不是在于人或状况,是在于想法,对待事物的观念。
如果老是跟人做比较,说啊,谁有样貌,谁谁有钱啊,谁更有才华样貌啊,是多余的。
比较多了,人就会开始埋怨,嫌自己拥有的不好,同时就错过了人生的很多很多人与事物。
换来的却是不开心,累又挣扎的日子,也许大半背子就白白浪费了。
我可不想这样,所以我要学习乐观面对生活。
其实生气这样东西很厉害,说真的,谁会喜欢生气?
但遍遍就是为了大小事就生气了起来,没人喜欢,但就不是还会生气?
若能在要生气时,卸下这口气,调整一下看待事情的方式,相信事情的结果会更好吧!
学会不生气,学会放下是一种成长!
为什么没手脚的人可以很快乐,完美无缺的人却不能?
反而,那个正常人应该更幸福吧,其实大家都一样是可以选择快乐地过,只要不比较,放下不该执着的,就好了。

7/03/2010

on 8:54 AM

look back to last year,last month even yesterday,still i could identify the changes of me.
i had learned that being a good guy was not easy at all.
i m not saying that i m excellent one,but im always willing lend out my helping hands whenever there is a call for it.
not to wait for the return favour, never purposely do so.
but wat is pathetic is that, people dont appreciate it.
this is the root cause where i hv to learn give up and take an ease off for yrself.
i will not care if they dont even concern for my sake.
but it doesnt mean that i turn to be like someone that acted to me, i still the same and never expect me to polish the apple.
many are doing selffishness, though, why should i turn to be like them?
to simply sum up,if i dont like the way other treated me,i wont treat to anyone like that too.
i just dont care.