i got the reminder,i was not good in what i'm in now.
no matter, study nor love.
ppl comments were right,i must brush up.
study was quite heavy to me,could it has another way to gain knowledge?
at first till now,i was still reluctant to study on the subjects headed to me.
woah...i shouldnt make it harder.
for now,i shall just do n less questioning.
in love.i was holding too tight.
i admit,i act likely overcare when i was really care.
well,it not caring already,its more like carrying?
i started to know,even with the purpose of caring but sometimes i failed to give freedom,failed to be less tense,failed be to understanding.
haha,to have self-critism,then improvement,of course!
since i dont feel like to slp yet,i came blogging here.
recently?i shall say: its still okay!
just bit short of money but if saving still okay.
just little hectic in interval yet i have time to enjoy somehow.
just sometimes apt to feel struggle,while finally i will find a way to relieve.
i dont wish to get more,life is no need reluctant,catch it easy way.
happiness is the first!
recently?i shall say: its still okay!
just bit short of money but if saving still okay.
just little hectic in interval yet i have time to enjoy somehow.
just sometimes apt to feel struggle,while finally i will find a way to relieve.
i dont wish to get more,life is no need reluctant,catch it easy way.
happiness is the first!
1am,the night is still young?
perhaps,to somebody its just the beginning of night.
i dont know...usually go to bed b4 it.i cant no more working hard at midnight,body is not feeling well after it.
my mind was not working well through out the day,felt like blur~
spent morning time at lab,noon for study and minor test, and night time gaming...
felt like i shouldnt play DoTA anymore.i shall quit.
okay...i kept on feeling like 2day was friday,haha,i guess i was so looking forward to weekend,weekend makes me feel more relaxing...ya,it should be.
while sunrise,its really friday already,yeah!
i like friday,cos friday has saturday n sunday ahead?yes,weekends!!
well,i gotta make my weekend worth tis time.
perhaps,to somebody its just the beginning of night.
i dont know...usually go to bed b4 it.i cant no more working hard at midnight,body is not feeling well after it.
my mind was not working well through out the day,felt like blur~
spent morning time at lab,noon for study and minor test, and night time gaming...
felt like i shouldnt play DoTA anymore.i shall quit.
okay...i kept on feeling like 2day was friday,haha,i guess i was so looking forward to weekend,weekend makes me feel more relaxing...ya,it should be.
while sunrise,its really friday already,yeah!
i like friday,cos friday has saturday n sunday ahead?yes,weekends!!
well,i gotta make my weekend worth tis time.
Monday, October 5, 2009
日常中一说到男人，总是与“大”相随，如：大老爷们、大男人、男子汉大丈夫等等。相对而言女性总是以“小弱”来形容，如：小女子、弱妇女。孔子一个句话，让千百年来的妇女受尽冤屈：“唯女子与小人难养也”。古代说某人不象男子，则往往以妇人耻辱之，如妇人之见，妇人之仁等等。诸葛亮六出祈山，欲激司马懿出战，专门派人给司马懿送来“巾帼妇人之饰”(《晋书·宣帝纪》)。好象男人就是山，应该伟岸陡峭；是天，应该宽渊博大；是太阳，应当阳刚热闹。
男人须大。但大在何方，又怎样成其大？
物品大一般用长宽高来形容。实在，大男人也有长宽高三种要素，缺一不可：
长目光要长远。风物长宜放眼量。是大男人，一定要把眼力放远些。男人要有幻想，通俗点就是有野心、有幻想，要敢于做梦，哪怕是白日梦。我常说：梦，能使人走得更远，飞得更高。连梦都不敢做的男人，尽对不是男人！一句广告语说得好：心有多大，人生的舞台就有多大。当然，立志从远，行事从小。先正心修身齐家，然后才干治国平天下。不积跬步，无以至千里；扫一室始，扫天下终。
宽心胸要宽广。海纳百川，有容乃大。大男人必定有度量、能大气。有副对联，说弥勒佛的：“大肚能容，容天下难容之事；启齿便笑，笑天下可笑之人。”大男人应能容天下之事。男人尽对不能鸡肠鼠肚，琐屑较量，为一已得失耿耿于怀，为鸡毛蒜皮杯葛不清。“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”。有个“六尺巷”的故事，说两个权贵家争地，互不相让，写信告到京城。某权贵一笑：“千里修书只为墙，让他三尺又何妨，万里长城今犹在，不见当年秦始皇。”这才是真正的宰相肚里能撑船，很有点大气。心胸宽广的人才干干成事业，心胸狭小的人永远难成大业。“心有多宽，路有多广”，男人应以广阔的胸怀和包容的性情往面对人和事。
高思想要有高度。我一直以为：男人可以无势力，但不可无境界。男人必需有自己的精力家园。《圣经》中说没有精力家园的人是迷途的羔羊，只能随波逐流、得过且过。王安石有句诗：“不畏浮云遮看眼，只缘身在最高层。”只有站在精力高地上俯瞰芸芸众生、审阅心坎世界，才干看得远，看得开，就如佛家讲悟禅，要跳出三界外。现实生涯中不可能阳春白雪、一尘不染，大男人也不可能都象屈原一样抱石沉江。可以进乡顺俗，但尽不能使自己进乡变俗；可以和光同尘，但不能使自己去光成尘。男人应当柔刚相济、主静躲锋，穷则独善其身，达则兼济天下。人生不可能始终一帆风顺，虎落平川时，也必定要时时提示自己是只虎，不能把自己当成犬。
大男子的做人要三分淡泊，七份韵致；做事要三分从容，七份潇洒。男人必需有自己的棱角和个性，我不爱好没有棱角个性的油滑之人。李白得到唐玄宗的诏书，大喜若狂：“仰天大笑出门往，我辈岂是蓬蒿人。”真正的大男人，即使媚俗也远比市井中人媚得可爱！
人生就象一条河，我们可能无法转变河流的来源，也无法断定河流的的终点，但可以尽力去拓展河流的宽度，加强奔跑的力气。我们可以使自己生涯变得快活些，日子过得滋润点，为人活得潇洒点。
泰山不让土壤，方能成其大；江海不拒细流，方能成其深。男人应当不断往扩大自己的长宽高，尽力使变成一个有思想有品味的人、一个真正大写的人！那么就必定能够快意人生、纵横江湖、游刃天地！
男人须大。但大在何方，又怎样成其大？
物品大一般用长宽高来形容。实在，大男人也有长宽高三种要素，缺一不可：
长目光要长远。风物长宜放眼量。是大男人，一定要把眼力放远些。男人要有幻想，通俗点就是有野心、有幻想，要敢于做梦，哪怕是白日梦。我常说：梦，能使人走得更远，飞得更高。连梦都不敢做的男人，尽对不是男人！一句广告语说得好：心有多大，人生的舞台就有多大。当然，立志从远，行事从小。先正心修身齐家，然后才干治国平天下。不积跬步，无以至千里；扫一室始，扫天下终。
宽心胸要宽广。海纳百川，有容乃大。大男人必定有度量、能大气。有副对联，说弥勒佛的：“大肚能容，容天下难容之事；启齿便笑，笑天下可笑之人。”大男人应能容天下之事。男人尽对不能鸡肠鼠肚，琐屑较量，为一已得失耿耿于怀，为鸡毛蒜皮杯葛不清。“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”。有个“六尺巷”的故事，说两个权贵家争地，互不相让，写信告到京城。某权贵一笑：“千里修书只为墙，让他三尺又何妨，万里长城今犹在，不见当年秦始皇。”这才是真正的宰相肚里能撑船，很有点大气。心胸宽广的人才干干成事业，心胸狭小的人永远难成大业。“心有多宽，路有多广”，男人应以广阔的胸怀和包容的性情往面对人和事。
高思想要有高度。我一直以为：男人可以无势力，但不可无境界。男人必需有自己的精力家园。《圣经》中说没有精力家园的人是迷途的羔羊，只能随波逐流、得过且过。王安石有句诗：“不畏浮云遮看眼，只缘身在最高层。”只有站在精力高地上俯瞰芸芸众生、审阅心坎世界，才干看得远，看得开，就如佛家讲悟禅，要跳出三界外。现实生涯中不可能阳春白雪、一尘不染，大男人也不可能都象屈原一样抱石沉江。可以进乡顺俗，但尽不能使自己进乡变俗；可以和光同尘，但不能使自己去光成尘。男人应当柔刚相济、主静躲锋，穷则独善其身，达则兼济天下。人生不可能始终一帆风顺，虎落平川时，也必定要时时提示自己是只虎，不能把自己当成犬。
大男子的做人要三分淡泊，七份韵致；做事要三分从容，七份潇洒。男人必需有自己的棱角和个性，我不爱好没有棱角个性的油滑之人。李白得到唐玄宗的诏书，大喜若狂：“仰天大笑出门往，我辈岂是蓬蒿人。”真正的大男人，即使媚俗也远比市井中人媚得可爱！
人生就象一条河，我们可能无法转变河流的来源，也无法断定河流的的终点，但可以尽力去拓展河流的宽度，加强奔跑的力气。我们可以使自己生涯变得快活些，日子过得滋润点，为人活得潇洒点。
泰山不让土壤，方能成其大；江海不拒细流，方能成其深。男人应当不断往扩大自己的长宽高，尽力使变成一个有思想有品味的人、一个真正大写的人！那么就必定能够快意人生、纵横江湖、游刃天地！
Saturday, October 3, 2009
i need rearrangement.
i m lost again..who blocks my way?of course is myself.
stayed up so late,blogging like donkey!!
spent whole day doing nonsense..
well,i dont get anything i wanted.
i need to rearrange tis by 2moro,work out my study,assignment and else.
not wasting time to talk nonsense and think too much.
i m lost again..who blocks my way?of course is myself.
stayed up so late,blogging like donkey!!
spent whole day doing nonsense..
well,i dont get anything i wanted.
i need to rearrange tis by 2moro,work out my study,assignment and else.
not wasting time to talk nonsense and think too much.
u need to be alone?
okay,i knw,just go ahead.
u will find me when u need me,i will show up as possible.
sometimes...i was speechless,yeah,ntg to express..
feeling so lonely recently, i was never neglect u in my mind.
okay,i agreed.i was sticky,bothering till u cant breath.
so? i will start adjusting,adjusting myself to solo?
come on...wat fault?!!
actly,i just need u.no need anything more,just a little concern...
okay,i knw,just go ahead.
u will find me when u need me,i will show up as possible.
sometimes...i was speechless,yeah,ntg to express..
feeling so lonely recently, i was never neglect u in my mind.
okay,i agreed.i was sticky,bothering till u cant breath.
so? i will start adjusting,adjusting myself to solo?
come on...wat fault?!!
actly,i just need u.no need anything more,just a little concern...
exam was closing...pressure was rising...
i need to catch up as fast.
i was left out far behind,small test results were poor.
anyway, life is not so smooth recently..
i felt like i was not a good student,not a good fren,not a good bf,not a good human being...
i cant cope with all i hv,it is too fast than i can catch.
i cant smile when i need to smile.
i cant cry when i feel like crying.
i cant be piss while i hv to control my emotion.
i cant cheers up when i was down.
i felt sorry most of the time.
yeah,tis is life!
i need to catch up as fast.
i was left out far behind,small test results were poor.
anyway, life is not so smooth recently..
i felt like i was not a good student,not a good fren,not a good bf,not a good human being...
i cant cope with all i hv,it is too fast than i can catch.
i cant smile when i need to smile.
i cant cry when i feel like crying.
i cant be piss while i hv to control my emotion.
i cant cheers up when i was down.
i felt sorry most of the time.
yeah,tis is life!
