i guess i m the one who dont know how to say "hi" or even "i'm sorry" if i m wrong.
my temper was so bad recently, and i dont think i like it.
i need to do something to take control of it anyhow.
i felt sorry.
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
看了个短片，里头的主角，四肢全无，但他能积极地生活，游泳，打高尔夫，摔倒了这就站得起来，很成功还到处去给讲座，激励了世界上许多正常人。
有些人没了双手没了双脚，还可以过得很乐观，开朗地认真生活。
但有些人只不过为了点小事，就喊着要死了，在他脑里，这样活着应该是很痛苦吧！
其实，举这两例子比较，很明显的，大家都知道这两个人面对生活的看法不同，也导致了他们生活的差距。
其实，差距不是在于人或状况，是在于想法，对待事物的观念。
如果老是跟人做比较，说啊，谁有样貌，谁谁有钱啊，谁更有才华样貌啊，是多余的。
比较多了，人就会开始埋怨，嫌自己拥有的不好，同时就错过了人生的很多很多人与事物。
换来的却是不开心，累又挣扎的日子，也许大半背子就白白浪费了。
我可不想这样，所以我要学习乐观面对生活。
其实生气这样东西很厉害，说真的，谁会喜欢生气？
但遍遍就是为了大小事就生气了起来，没人喜欢，但就不是还会生气？
若能在要生气时，卸下这口气，调整一下看待事情的方式，相信事情的结果会更好吧！
学会不生气，学会放下是一种成长！
为什么没手脚的人可以很快乐，完美无缺的人却不能？
反而，那个正常人应该更幸福吧，其实大家都一样是可以选择快乐地过，只要不比较，放下不该执着的，就好了。
有些人没了双手没了双脚，还可以过得很乐观，开朗地认真生活。
但有些人只不过为了点小事，就喊着要死了，在他脑里，这样活着应该是很痛苦吧！
其实，举这两例子比较，很明显的，大家都知道这两个人面对生活的看法不同，也导致了他们生活的差距。
其实，差距不是在于人或状况，是在于想法，对待事物的观念。
如果老是跟人做比较，说啊，谁有样貌，谁谁有钱啊，谁更有才华样貌啊，是多余的。
比较多了，人就会开始埋怨，嫌自己拥有的不好，同时就错过了人生的很多很多人与事物。
换来的却是不开心，累又挣扎的日子，也许大半背子就白白浪费了。
我可不想这样，所以我要学习乐观面对生活。
其实生气这样东西很厉害，说真的，谁会喜欢生气？
但遍遍就是为了大小事就生气了起来，没人喜欢，但就不是还会生气？
若能在要生气时，卸下这口气，调整一下看待事情的方式，相信事情的结果会更好吧！
学会不生气，学会放下是一种成长！
为什么没手脚的人可以很快乐，完美无缺的人却不能？
反而，那个正常人应该更幸福吧，其实大家都一样是可以选择快乐地过，只要不比较，放下不该执着的，就好了。
Saturday, March 6, 2010
look back to last year,last month even yesterday,still i could identify the changes of me.
i had learned that being a good guy was not easy at all.
i m not saying that i m excellent one,but im always willing lend out my helping hands whenever there is a call for it.
not to wait for the return favour, never purposely do so.
but wat is pathetic is that, people dont appreciate it.
this is the root cause where i hv to learn give up and take an ease off for yrself.
i will not care if they dont even concern for my sake.
but it doesnt mean that i turn to be like someone that acted to me, i still the same and never expect me to polish the apple.
many are doing selffishness, though, why should i turn to be like them?
to simply sum up,if i dont like the way other treated me,i wont treat to anyone like that too.
i just dont care.
i had learned that being a good guy was not easy at all.
i m not saying that i m excellent one,but im always willing lend out my helping hands whenever there is a call for it.
not to wait for the return favour, never purposely do so.
but wat is pathetic is that, people dont appreciate it.
this is the root cause where i hv to learn give up and take an ease off for yrself.
i will not care if they dont even concern for my sake.
but it doesnt mean that i turn to be like someone that acted to me, i still the same and never expect me to polish the apple.
many are doing selffishness, though, why should i turn to be like them?
to simply sum up,if i dont like the way other treated me,i wont treat to anyone like that too.
i just dont care.
